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Bereavement Support Posts => Please Post In This Bereavement Support Posting Room => Topic started by: missfrier on April 04, 2017, 09:52:14 PM
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HI nan
i know it only been few days since you passed it been really hard i i dont no how to deal with it im trying to be strong i dotn want to be in middle all arguments im sorry i didnt get tosay bye to you it hapend to quick i knew you were poorly but not how poorly ill dad rang me saturday to say you had only couple weeks u passed on sunday i cant cry i want tto i did love you you sat next to mum at gary wedding telling mum abotu dads ex wife oops that was mum but mum new it wasnt aimed at her it was illness talking we go shopping and you say shh dont tell ya grandad i brought this or ya dad you took me london and we saw th buddy holly on stage you brought me this really expensive bag i didnt have the heart to tell you i ddint like it you could talk for england you would go sho[pping and you stop and talk to all the little ladies. when were younger we pull out wardrobe and strip our beds and you would make us sleep like it.
i dont no what to do why cant every just get on i dont want to be piggy in middle i really cant deal with i dont no what im supposed to do i jut want it to stop
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Sending a hug :hug: xx
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you obviously loved your nan very much.
I hope the bickering calms down for you. It could be because everyone is feeling very emotional. Stay strong
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you obviously loved your nan very much.
I hope the bickering calms down for you. It could be because everyone is feeling very emotional. Stay strong
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thank you arguing has been on for bout 3 years
now
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:hug:you Nan sounds lovely Lisa i hope when its my turn my grandchildren also have good memorys of me like you have of her.
Its not what you need especially at difficult times like this but all famillys i think, have these ongoing conflicts and issues -mine certainly does,
but i decided i,d had enough and when there was a fall out last time round i just said youre grown ups -sort it out yourselves or dont sort it out at all, - but i,m not getting involved -I,m out.
They didnt sort it, but they know better than to try and involve me any more.