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Title: One year on
Post by: Spaicer on January 12, 2017, 09:07:25 PM

So today is the 1st year anniversary of my darling husband passing.  I managed to get through Christmas, our daughters 21st birthday and today without anyone knowing how upset I am (as I always do) but I'm not ok, I'm just as heartbroken today as I was 12th January 2016, there's a huge Terry shaped hole in my life and I'm bereft (seems the best word to use) I can't imagine it ever being better, I go to work & look after my family and provide for everyone, I smile and laugh with people at work but inside I'm so empty.
Just needed to tell someone. Thanks

Title: Re: One year on
Post by: pennyking on January 12, 2017, 09:29:33 PM

Glad you could share it with us.  Sending you massive hugs.

 :hug: :hug: :hug:

Take care

Penny x

Title: Re: One year on
Post by: Hubby on January 12, 2017, 10:42:14 PM

Spaicer  :hug:

Title: Re: One year on
Post by: Karena on January 13, 2017, 06:03:31 PM

 :hug: problem with a year is everyone thinks you get better in a year and so we start to think we should and so begins the best acting performance of our lives.

Title: Re: One year on
Post by: Didi63 on January 18, 2017, 10:35:41 AM

 :hug:  Spaicer.
Keep posting on here. I am so pleased to have found this lovely place as feel quite lonely and now losing dad has put me in a numb place.
It's ok to cry and still grieve. We wouldn't be human if we didn't and those emotions are better out rather than kept in.  :hearts: