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Bereavement Support Posts => Introduce Yourself To Us All => Topic started by: Lovecat on October 02, 2016, 05:54:14 PM

Title: My Mum
Post by: Lovecat on October 02, 2016, 05:54:14 PM

My Mum passed away 3 weeks ago.  I've been in organisation mode until now, but this weekend it has really hit me and I literally cannot stop crying.  I've lost both my parents now and I just feel emotionally lost, as if my anchors have gone. 

Title: Re: My Mum
Post by: Norma on October 02, 2016, 06:04:04 PM

Sending you a welcone hug xxx

 :hug:

3 weeks is no time at all to be feeling anything but lost hun xx

Title: Re: My Mum
Post by: Emz2014 on October 02, 2016, 09:31:45 PM

Sending a welcome hug  :hug:  its early days, be gentle with yourself and take small baby steps xx

Title: Re: My Mum
Post by: Hubby on October 02, 2016, 10:19:35 PM

Welcome to the forum Lovecat. Sorry to hear of your loss.

I think all of us know how horrible it is when the numbness of the first few weeks wears off and the reality of our loss hits us.

Wishing you strength.

 :hug:

Title: Re: My Mum
Post by: Julie Magson on October 03, 2016, 11:04:22 AM

Yes the numbness, which I think is put there to help us over the first few weeks, does wear off and brand new emotions kick in. Hopefully we can support you through it all. I remember when I lost both my parents I suddenly felt like a grown up orphan. :heart:

Title: Re: My Mum
Post by: pennyking on October 04, 2016, 09:20:25 PM

Welcome Lovecat.  So sorry for your loss.  Sending hugs, Penny x